While retaining a competent experienced Texas divorce attorney can provide an effective way to protect your interests during a divorce, any party to a divorce also can take steps to avoid certain mistakes that adversely impact the outcome of one\u2019s marital dissolution.\u00a0 If you have questions about how to handle certain issues, your attorney can provide legal counsel and assist you in avoiding pitfalls that can result in undesirable outcomes on issues like alimony, conservatorship, timesharing, property division and other key issues.\u00a0 However, at the Texas family law office of Alex Tyra, we often hear from prospective clients that do not contact us until after they have made critical errors.\u00a0 We have provided an overview of mistakes to avoid if you are involved in a Texas divorce proceeding:<\/p>\n
Be Reasonable and Businesslike<\/strong>: Many of the most high conflict divorce cases arise out of unrealistic expectations and unnecessary animosity.\u00a0 It is understandable that the divorce process will involve emotions like anger, jealousy, fear and anxiety that may hinder constructive positive solutions.\u00a0 However, both spouses lose when they run up unnecessary legal fees and litigation expenses because one side or the other takes a position that is not reasonable given the possible spectrum of orders that a judge might issue.\u00a0 We frequently hear prospective clients that insist they want \u201csole custody\u201d or \u201cno spousal maintenance.\u201d\u00a0 It is the exception rather than the norm when such orders are granted so you should let an experienced divorce attorney help you develop realistic expectations.<\/p>\n Provide Your Attorney with Requested Information<\/strong>: There are disclosure requirements and discovery obligations for both parties in a Texas divorce.\u00a0 When your Texas divorce attorney requests documents or information, it important to provide this information promptly so that your attorney can respond to discovery and provide mandatory disclosures.\u00a0 The best practice is to gather financial documents, title documents, paystubs, retirement plan statements, tax returns, paystubs, monthly bills and mortgage statements because your attorney will need these to develop settlement positions on property and debt distribution, spousal maintenance, child support and other issues.<\/p>\n Perceiving Your Spouse as Confident<\/strong>: Because of the long duration of many marriages, it is natural to feel comfortable disclosing information with your spouse during an amicable divorce process.\u00a0 Even in an amicable divorce, it is important to understand that a marital dissolution is an adversarial proceeding.\u00a0 You should be careful providing confidential and proprietary information with a spouse because it may be used against you.\u00a0 It is imperative that you consult your Texas divorce attorney before executing any document provided by your spouse.<\/p>\n Focus on the Forest Not the Trees<\/strong>: Because you may be overwhelmed by strong emotions in a divorce, it is easy to get bogged down in winning short-term battles while damaging your long-term prospects.\u00a0 It is important to step back when you are being spurned on by intense emotions so that you do not make a poor decision that runs counter to your best interests.\u00a0 Divorce attorneys can provide sound legal advice which put issues in proper perspective.<\/p>\n If you are involved in a marital dissolution, Texas family law attorney Alex Tyra offers a free consultation so that he can help you understand your rights and options.\u00a0 We invite you to contact us in our Longview, Texas office at 903-753-7499 or visit our website and submit a case contact form.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" While retaining a competent experienced Texas divorce attorney can provide an effective way to protect your interests during a divorce, any party to a divorce also can take steps to avoid certain mistakes that adversely impact the outcome of one\u2019s marital dissolution.\u00a0 If you have questions about how to handle certain issues, your attorney can […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[12],"class_list":["post-105","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-texas-divorce-cases","tag-longview-divorce-attorney"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tyralawoffice.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tyralawoffice.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tyralawoffice.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tyralawoffice.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tyralawoffice.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=105"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/tyralawoffice.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":106,"href":"https:\/\/tyralawoffice.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105\/revisions\/106"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tyralawoffice.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=105"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tyralawoffice.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=105"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tyralawoffice.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=105"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}